I’m in love with my new strap-on harness
I recently picked up this leather harness from Mr. S Leather and I’m in LOVE.
I'm a transmasc non-binary person who has a lot of recreational as well as professional sex. I have used many harnesses over the years including underwear-style, lace-back garment leather, and nylon straps, with recurring issues.
The most frustrating issue with most harnesses is that the o-ring is too low, leading to an unnatural thrusting angle. Another common issue is poor stability which also leads to unnatural and stilted thrusting as you try to accomodate dildo movement. And finally, and what pushed me to pick up this harness, most are geared towards cis women and are therefore overtly femme or prominently feature very feminine accents in the design. I finally reached a point in transition where I wanted both a MASC harness and one that ACTUALLY WORKS.
As soon as I put this on in the store I knew it was the right one. It felt solid on my hips once I adjusted it. Even more importantly, the placement of the o-ring is PERFECT. It is exactly where a dick is supposed to be - and, as a result, my t-cock and both my holes are exposed for even more pleasure and fun. FUCK YEAH!
I immediately gave this a trial run shooting pornography in Vegas. Folks, this made strapping FUN again. Gone are the days of the dildo falling out of the ring or shooting backwards out of the harness (yes that has actually happened to me). I was throwing strap for four days straight, and loving it. It looks hot as hell and accentuates my more masculine body type, too!
If you are transmasc and looking for a hot and functional leather harness, I can't recommend this one enough.